Time is money but its worth investing in it.

He was known as Maina.Maina was just 27 when he moved to Nakuru.A young handsome,successful guy.He was every girl's definition of a legible bachelor.The only problem was that he was such a flirt almost a player to some degree.He would enter into a club and all eyes would turn to him.His sense of fashion and choice of scent was one to reckon with.Men would die of jealousy and women would drool in lust.He would often take different women to his place.Many women didn't like this behavior.At one point he paid off a young girl from a university to commit abortion since he wasn't ready for a relationship not to mention a family.Christine Wanza was one girl who was not shaken by Maina's flare.She knew her worth and Maina was the last guy she'd engage with even if all men were extinct.However,one particular Thursday,Christine was so drunk that her friends couldn't control so she was left and who happened to be ground,yes,Maina.Maina took her home and fortunately nothing happened.The next morning she woke up hysterically checking if she was in anyway violated.Maina had slept on the sofa.She was shocked by Maina's actions.She therefore carried a different persona about him.Maina woke up and made breakfast and even fed her.Christine was intrigued.They were later seen hanging out together several times and people were shocked.People told her that she would get hurt.She shrugged their advise saying that she had changed Maina and they were only jealous.Months went on and they were head over heels in love...well Christine was.Three months down the line a gap between the two started growing.Maina would lie to Christine and go out on a drinking spree and come back home drunk(yes they moved in together)
Though he never brought any girl home,his clothes had female scents and Christine became skeptical and started following him.After weeks if following she couldn't find any proof to reprimand him with.
Christine tried approaching him but he always pulled the topic down saying she was just being a drama queen.The words her friends used to tell her started lingering in her mind.
Maina couldn't take it anymore and asked her to move out as they needed space.
She fell into depression for two months with no word from Maina.He was back to his usual escapades.

Well,what do you learn from this post...NEVER rush into a relationship.Take time knowing and understanding someone lest you fall victim like Christine.
Cheers lovers <3

The Ex Factor.

#Sigh
Ever wondered why that ex boyfriend or girlfriend will always bring communication back to life.I myself find it tricky to understand.Well i know many people out there look for signs..some fearing that their exes want them back while others still haven't yet emptied their trash bin.
Here are afew signs that may help you know whether he or she wants you back.
Relax don't freak out.ANALYSE your situation after reading each sign.

1) Makes initiative to reach out to you either
directly or through mutual friends and relatives.
2) Looks at you or touches you the same as when
he or she first met you
3) Hangs around longer, in person an on phone,
or sends you frequent short emails, whatever he or she can to be near you.
4) Makes effort not just to improve him or herself but let you know they are doing their best to
make themselves more attractive to you. This
includes working though inner issues improving personal appearance, getting a better job or anything to become more financially stable,committing to spiritual growth, becoming more social etc.

5) Makes a lot of sincere effort to explain and
make it right if he or she suspects they've done
something to upset or disappoint you; e.g. if he
or she told you they'd call at a certain time, but
didn't.

6) Steers conversations to talking about your
breakup and how things could have been better.

7) Alludes to a future that includes you in it.

Well what do you think...Does he or she want you back or are you just hoping for another chance...well after reading this...ADDRESS the matter.All the best...  :-D

Pick me Principles.

Well ever wondered what women getWell ever wondered what women get attracted to or what men get attracted to?Ever wondered why that hot chic chose that guy over you or why the head of department took the tea lady for lunch having worn your most amazing outfit...well there are afew factors that trigger this.

1.Attitude:Most people in school or work either possess humility or pride towards certain things or people.Well pride and humility can be an attractive factor.However it's important to always carry a subtle attitude;humility and pride in one personality.Know when to push the pride button and when to switch it off.Either of the attributes should not be exercised all the time.

2.Cologne:Yeah that scent you carry on your clothes or can't leave your bodies for hours.Using usual and common scents does not give you a bonus to win that person over.Choose wisely on through types of scent you apply.Let him/her identify your presence from the scent you possess.Never ever apply cologne or perfume having not showered.Y'all know the effects that occur.Not cool.

3.Solitude:in most cases it is quite intriguing when a fine and attractive person is seen alone.Most people take it negatively and assume wrong things about that person.Surprisingly you'll find that that person is the most interesting and funny person you've been with compared to the popular people you've always considered awesome.

4.Style and Fashion:Well most people think that in order for you to attract attention you ought to dress in expensive and designer attire.Well get this straight now,simplicity more often than complexity wins the attention of that person.Dressing to much or too sophisticated shows that you're trying really hard and that's a very wrong impression to make.Do not borrow clothes or buy on credit.Step into your closet and be creative.

5.Posture:When i mention posture it doesn't necessarily mean you ought to cross your legs to the point one may assume nature calls using a microphone if you know what i mean.You ought to be relaxed and look comfortable.Sit in a manner that one will emulate than ridicule.Mind the kind of dressing you have and the immediate environment in this case i mean the people around you.

MONEY CAN'T BUY PYAAR!!

I t was a Thursday night in the local University In Kakamega town,Kenya.The local club was not full to capacity but anyone could tell the usual students never missed to be there for their usual drink of vodka and smoke a cigarette to boost the intoxication.Mike arrived at around 9pm his usual time and sad at the counter and ordered himself three beers,It had been a very tough day for him especially after receiving his end of semester results and he had failed two units contrary to his father's expectations.His father dug the earth to eke a living to support his family of seven,Clearly family planning was a term in his imaginary dictionary.Mary arrived as usual with her click of egocentric girlfriends.Mary was the attraction of every man in that campus.Any guy would buy her anything just to take her home,Mike knew it was not possible to please

her.Coming from a family of lawyers owning so much land in the little down,her family was reknown.However,Mary walked to the counter and suddenly spilled Mike's beer on his cheap jeans.Unusually,Mary was apologetic and even offered to replace the beer but Mike insisted he was fine.In this whole turn of events Mary was unusually looking at poor Mike and she winked at him and wrote her number on his arm.Mike was shocked to death that he even drank his beers faster and left,Gathering all the courage,he called her and Mary was delighted to here from him and he suggested they should meet for lunch on her bill.They had several dates in less that two weeks and suddenly Mike became popular.One night of at the local club,Mary confessed that she was in love with Mike and they should give a relationship a try.Mike stated that he was not worth her but Mary stated that she never minded his financial status.All that was of value were his feelings to her.Mike loved Mary since the day he stepped into that campus.

For months they dated and even lived together.They were the couple of the year,However,Mike had to go home out of Kakamega and he stayed there for a month.Mary was very bored and needed closure.One Tuesday night at the local club Miguel a young and handsome man approached Mary with a bottle of Merlot and gave her,They shared wine and Miguel took her home and Mary asked Miguel to make love to her but he did not.The next day they had lunch and many more times and they grew found of each other.Sooner or later Mary realized that she was developing feelings for Miguel.Miguel showered Mary with gifts nothing compared to poor Mike.Rumors of the two getting cosy reached Mike and he rushed back only to confirm the rumors were true.Mary started dodging Mike but later she told Mike that they no longer were compatible and that they needed to move on.Mary was tired of supporting Mike,that Mike was not playing his male duties.Mike was left high and dry and spent most of the semester sulking in cheap brew.

Guys from this post,we should realize that Money can not buy love and love is priceless.

As we speak Mary is pregnant and Miguel is nowhere to be seen.

TRUE STORY.

What is it??

Well as my first post i would like to define to you guys the meaning of Love...

The English word "love" can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from pleasure ("I loved that meal") to interpersonal attraction ("I love my partner"). It can refer to an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment.^[ It can also be a virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection—"the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another" And it may describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animals.
In terms of interpersonal attraction, four forms of love have traditionally been distinguished, based on ancient Greek precedent: the love of kinship or familiarity (in Greek, storge), the love of friendship (philia), the love of sexual and/or romantic desire (eros), and self-emptying or divine love (agape).Modern authors have distinguished further varieties of romantic love.Non-Western traditions have also distinguished variants or symbioses of these states. This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, compared to other emotional states.
Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts
Love may be understood as part of the survival instinct, a function to keep human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species.


From this small definition,are you in love or have you ever been?